[ethan doesn't really like to talk about it. he may have learned and grown, slowed down in a lot of ways, but he also changed again and he is older and wiser but can't slow down anymore.]

Right. It's to meet people, make friends more than actual ~romance~ of any kind. Easy way to get to know people through questions. No pressure at all.

[casual is the name of the game.] Might even be games too if I can think of them.